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I have to my one for the recording are
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I design and sell information products I and II
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specifically target people who want to do stuff on their own I do treat people
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game so depending on on where you fall in the
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in the scope of things we have something for you money and
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why I usually sit in the back he was working
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we're gonna lock you in yup
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okay yeah again because they saw me howling a soluble
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this is the beginning a class like not so much
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okay and I'm in turn is winding down just a little bit
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but I think it's a little too much that bennett
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so com by the way the people who sit in the front
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always get the best up
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others that's right off against her okay so let me ask a quick question how many
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arm are currently in a relationship
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how many people here one relationship I better see a whole lot more and now
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one of the things that while I hope you're talking about but if I do all
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this weird stuff persuasion
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with an OP why am I here telling you about how to be better
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can be more attractive than ourselves the first video courses for home study
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course they were put out
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was call si Herodotus
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it was a program specifically designed to teach men
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how to become the kind of lover every woman tennis
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about can it was all designed to learn
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using NLP and other types of systems
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how to find out how exactly how woman wanted to be touched
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you ordered sequence you want to be touched how she knew she was getting it
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what she considered to be her perfect
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kiss perfect touch the perfect everything and to give it back to a
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you automatically said
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her I'm your what about the guy
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is the only have to pay attention to what women really want
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and give it to them in a way that they knew that they were getting
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please let me ask you a question if you met a guy
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that touched you can exactly
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always dreamed at the right time in the right place
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and every and every time I tell this story War II
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talk about this we get that response
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because every one of us man or woman is moving through the world with this
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internal checklist and we're projecting
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wanted everyone around us and every time we meet a guy
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me okay doesn't match my physical in Jack did he say the right thing at the
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check he touched the Senate to close right
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into the degree that the person you're interacting with matches your checklist
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they get for the video game to get to go to the next level last night you that
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after all those books playing your strauss and everything came out but
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the bottom line is that you have a checklist you have a hierarchy
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up what's important to you not just in terms of quality in a guy
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but you have on now that you're moving to the world
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looking for somebody to yet and to the degree that they fit that man
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you follow up you become very attracted to that person
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become desiring more intimacy with that person because
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what you see when you look at them when you interact with them
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physically verbally socially
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whenever is a mirror who you are inside
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this is your first step it's not about you alright
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every woman that you meeting its works the same
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for guys like this is the first master key
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everyone you meet is projecting
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onto you just like that but we don't be calmer everything they want
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and to be absolutely happy to the degree
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that you have the ability to pay attention and give it back to them
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in a way that they know what they're getting they will fall for you
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head over heels faster the making you can possibly imagine
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some other protocols and I T wanna be shot
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there some the protocols ATT can take a person
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from being a complete stranger
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to on the verge of falling in love with you in as little as 15 minutes
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now just because we can do that
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doesn't mean we should as any you've ever been caught in a relationship for
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six months that went absolutely nowhere
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well tested right how many people here especially how could we would like to
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region how many guys here's a funny
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how I feel just like to get more women region okay we have one honest guy in a
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are you guys got a relaxed and thirdly
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every set up image data I want to look at the person to the right and left yet
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reach out shake your hand look in the eyes my lingo boot
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mandated my eyes alright just
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let you out people in the trenches lead
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yeah the alright looking like he is JR
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that I'm really tired informal world
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beginning in the product is done I can get a handle
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and they didn't give me shares like ants in
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really just kinda bond with you all so
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person wanna talk about it is is little useful concept of I call
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checklist depending on what niche I'm teaching within teaching and I need to
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primarily man you might hear me call the orgasm code right
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are and dealing with women I talk about the ideal our checklist
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the bottom line is men and women both do this many
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training more than you do I'm sorry I'm just gonna rocks
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bank on I just finished eating a two-day class
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on cell phone call self-mastery it was a class on how to reprogram
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have fun while many police on your baggage
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Henry create your own identity from the ground up really powerful supplemental
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highly recommend a course yeah if you graduate today courses
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and if they wanna pointing out you can talk to them about them
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but done one other things that we have to do is we got there are crap
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if we want to attract better people we got there are proper
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first and foremost because they're gonna back what you project onto the world
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how many people here coping with myself back to eventually just
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I'm people here bishal tend to keep attracting the same kinda person in
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who I'm people donated which is usually wouldn't
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you see the hapless that
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that we've moved to the world in the whole checklists most to them
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are programmed into us before we even realize
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there's that the people around us are this with this light before
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80 805 is the most sinister its program
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and so the dominant capitalist-style which she saw ur
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tend to your parents or the people in those roles
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when %um after that becomes a
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the people who gave you the most pleasurable experiences the lower
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most pleasurable experience is your early formative years usually have a lot
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up we're gonna it frank talk offend you should probably run streaming for the
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can I had you tend to last
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politically incorrect sometimes just necessary financier streets to
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right up to the checklist
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here's the bottom line on this every man or woman that you meet
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will in fact touch you
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the way they want to be touched in the place they want to be touched
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they will seek to you
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in the language the country some weird
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they want to be part in will literally
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come out now exactly what they want here
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all you have to do is avoid getting creative
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and give it back to them
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in the border in sequence that comes out of her mouth
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and you'll start to feel dramatically comparable
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with you can how many will be here would like to have a guy
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just seems to get her guess what I just ate every minute from the key to getting
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okay because we don't know about this checklist
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now though this loan exposure to NLP or even some forms a conversational
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we understand this concept that pacing in leading matching
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Harrington can try to minimize the jargon prime minister but basically
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anything it's only does he do it back the nervous system
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treats that as a call to say miss
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okay the problem with sameness is as boring
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K and this is one of the problems we
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again I'm gonna try and lower this morning and couldn't keep getting
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I hate the high-pitched whine throws because of my flow anyway so
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by Elias when you getting into some money they will in fact
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stand if they haven't passed social
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cutie whatsoever the way they won to be late you gonna talk about seven sages
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by were so you can literally look at any two people interacting a group of people
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and see in re who is attracted to
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using the big problems guys have any market bang on guys a lot
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because we're done Ross really I I have a few supporters out there
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and on 2005 just to give you an idea
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I was all in the top 10 attraction sexuality experts
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by are a bit are approaching dot com because
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I developed a system for becoming any woman's ideal lover
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leaking those feelings to me in such a way that the more she said time me
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would anyone here like that's killing a man the longer you sent time with them
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happier than you got in
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but some people might not consider there
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why because most a lot of people moved to the world thinking
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that I have to do something that's not an actual that's something that I have
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or I wasn't born somehow wrong
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to those people might have that feeling I had this to say:
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start washing your hair
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stop going to the hairdresser start getting your nails done
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because it's no different
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maybe the scale maybe the degree me
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but don't we all want to look our best why
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week I will not let certainly come out looking are vastly
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we certainly didn't smell all at great and yet
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we do these things because we do care because we do want people like us
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here's the thing about the kind relationships and talking about
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your ideal way talking about becoming
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somebody who engenders intense desire
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be and say with you
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couple pics were hot songs of I want you down
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when you start applying the principles that i'm talking about.
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you won't have a problem attracting people you have a problem getting rid of
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which leads you better have a damn good way
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to soar for the kind of people that you want to send
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you see the people that we attract in our life are more often than not based
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people we identify with his children Werner early years
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who in combination being present in our role
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a pattern that place is the ultimate authority in our lives
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we love them and we start project that onto the law
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we look for the homes people
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ironical milena physically mash
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power father looked around mother at work there will be characteristics of
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the attitudes and behavioral traits
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that we are naturally predisposed
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to gravitate not because we enjoyed a
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this is a statement hey this is worse actually a little heavy you might want
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you know a chocolate now
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you might offer some business traction gurus and
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teachers say this phrase
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we don't like a a morning walk down the street see some transient gonna be
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and if we do they usually run seem getaway
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we do not sore sure
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and we're gonna go back to the home so we can understand your stuff starts
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so we can begin to change it so we can begin to create
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and the Karma the kind of person
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that he'd get the kind of guy or gal that you really want
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not the one that was programmed into us
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well you write this
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this is your brain on day in
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we like to think we're really smart people this has nothing to do with
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everything to do with storage and what got their first
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your brain is hardwired not to sort
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at least not in the sense that we as adults under should
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there's you know comfortable
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but it gets even more crime
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to use a therapeutic model but I've for anybody who's been
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for housing on other people in abusive relationships you might find similar
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on the clinically up one other thing that I deal with a lot is his repressed
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almost every every every case I deal with
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when it comes to to helping women especially with pain
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on and get I regular weight loss I get
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dramatics are almost always have some kind of sexual abuse and molestation
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should K ideal out those issues help people get through them
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help people put them behind them stuff like that
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when you come into this world you are one big blank
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hard drive you barely have an operating system
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to use a computer for to your brain
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what ever comes first
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becomes the standard which everything else is measured by
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it becomes what's familiar
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if you run into all into an environment where your help
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your comforted singer comparable writer
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good and then maybe eventually a word
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sissy with that we come to know us
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hand model she does not know what love means
24:27
but she knows and she feels a K she does not understand
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yet at least not we understood
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at Asbury ball perspective
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but her most basic fundamental outlook 2007 again
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you know guys getting back at me
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she doesn't understand what's familiar
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and she understands what's comfortable
24:51
if you have a choice she has to choose
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more often than not soccer Watson
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you will too what's in the years usually what's their first
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and this is why if you have somebody
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like when you're dealing with an alcoholic or something Chronicle getting
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abusive relationships
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that person may buy into a relationship that
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July going on there's a lot of are doing
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you know you might get these last on drama bothered ron
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she'll be you don't do right can even now
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it's not directed at the kids and the kids pressed we did a a whole same in
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are doing a lot to training on child I law
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and you can honestly mister play with dialogue in these voices in your head
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notice that different places the usual course I will be done before
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figures you my first standing at the time
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because most of us courses are here and here and here
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yourself on the down here
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because we're this is usually where we are
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when those voices are seeking
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we identify with the voices
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and it down authority figures in our life
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they become a template by which we start to create our own checklist
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does it match or does is million
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national you unconsciously sort for
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came he gets deeper I want it to
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crap now emotionally organize people love me feeling good feeling happy
26:34
but for some people love has a couple other elements in it that we don't only
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why because those are the emotions that were going on when the world loves being
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around the hard-wired
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every now and then it teaches are the same she said here's see some guy
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go camilla jayne 109 my mother
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niners Britain there are things you can do
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right but understand that this the homes the settled by which everything else
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it seems 10 the whole life
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multi your parents ten-day people we pick
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her because it's something about them
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years back to those people something they don't like about themselves
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which brings us to our next
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our next lesson and how you actually
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work now cool thing is unit in arms and he had no sis
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energy were we can fix you not broken Nana you a broken
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trust me on this 9 you are broken
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you just as Richard N left to say you do stupid shit
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when does that really mean it just me that you're thinking about things in a
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sermon is not getting what you want
27:58
and to you understand how to run your brain
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will continue to have thoughts and memories
28:06
and ideas that were put in there without your consent
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most time out here realization and I'll continue anyway
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and my persuasion and influence courses I teach people anything outside your
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awareness is outside your control ninety
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guys had become kinda lower
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every woman dreams and up for rule is pay attention
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pay attention because she won't give you all the information that you need
28:40
people and she will love you for
28:44
the theory now alright
28:47
sup questions on miss par
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idoney to devalue it isn't there classes understanding
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while why am i keeping track in the same kind of people in your life
28:59
it's not about good or bad it's about what was their first
29:04
and what you're showing for this is also why you can be a great guy a great girl
29:08
everything you ever wanted in a relationship should check this is happy
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because it doesn't match at Camp
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it does it match goes to sell seen self-image
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a lot of work goes into our self-image in ourselves see
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our peace harmony attack which he had we been
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do if I'm had no conscious
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and actual she changes the things we accept
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the refused to accept change
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this is why we have been called for flash file
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know this is you could see a movie
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this is why many times and ladies you've heard it a thousand times prior read the
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two people meet in undergraduate education made in high school
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he has a saturation be a world-famous Hartcher your plastic surgeon your
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some kind of high-level mugging mug she worked her butt off to help him get to
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how can become you know klein et corporate ladder yesterday
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fortune 500 CEO position dumpster for model
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why self-image change
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what he thought he deserved change
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had nothing to do with him lower actually
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it's how he sees himself seem have a sinkhole resistance
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and resistance caught up in 10 for basic ways
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any came that challenges for calls into question
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how we see ourselves
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we resist a move away from anything that jeopardizes
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other people will say yes
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and we have you resist
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anything that contradicts what we now
31:19
now there's one other kind the resistance that rears its ugly head
31:23
lovingly call it the fuck you factor missus call reactants
31:29
and you'll most likely seriousness any kind your parents don't want me to date
31:33
the person your turn today
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okay they come home you bring a guy home to go home
31:40
and the first words government you know it's annoying were right there
31:44
right but you keep Gina
31:47
or you keep seeing her in spite of what your parents said
31:51
and even though you might not even at attracted to him right away the longer
31:54
they talk better he looks
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no K that's called reacted
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it's a natural hard-wired reaction to
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any kind of persuasion that we getting that we didn't ask for
32:08
your mom you for in with the last hour
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you hit hard-wired into every human being on the planet
32:27
so the secret becomes how do you make people want to do the things we want
32:39
we do the company's foundation because some things I will say you
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will give you that from that debt this raw emotional response
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pay attention to that because every time something comes out of my mouth that
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less than positive emotional response something need to explore
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K part of my job is to make a painfully aware some other things
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more because the things you running away from
33:06
keep on with other people in your life
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right sup most guys
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when it comes to me ideal woman they have a problem
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the problem is a the ship yeah
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and the things that are supposed to work in a chronological
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linear progression cuz I have I seen a causes the
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cause I C tell me think but that's not how women think
33:33
as a rule not that they're dumber or irrational
33:36
in like that but as a rule
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and rules mean that the truth fifty-one percent of the time useful
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arm was my reaction their issue Laurent
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this useful information by the way I'm going to come on West looking for
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get well causing other things to the press at work America
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remember talk about how guys living hell okay
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in Oly with sixty we have these things called language patterns
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their wages seeking now certain language patterns give you these
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are can can create certain effects on the brain
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and then they can they cause you to change your perception the world because
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they change how your brain processes information
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guys has a role to thinking what is commonly referred to as cost
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and effect language
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destruction medellin axe causes why
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I was late today because traffic on Mira Mesa
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side it was bumper to bumper I couldn't get there
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right men tend to think that way
34:59
but there's an evil cousin I said that he was actually pretty cool
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much understand it I may give you a secret today
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secret recipe today for making any relationship work
35:10
with ethical that you saw even if you never divorce
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who caller community
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by a if you don't understand con that in consequence she won't be able to make it
35:28
in a cause-and-effect relationship there's a sequential ordinal
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axe causes like causes see in a complex equipment relationship
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may have the same so the judge joke at my mom might my wife and I
35:53
kinda banter about an hour we'll use this example and I invited her tonight
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this time you're such a time for us
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you know we met long before but someone honor little bit she shows up it not
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then on talk about on
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traffic on their nation was bumper to bumper national am Lee someone who's
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doing the complex equipment least
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you a better plan you imminently does this sound familiar
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the the story we used to say is you know
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I'm sorry honey I was late night I got caught held up at the office traffic was
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late because all these things at White and pick jack up the day here
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if you love jack keeping did these sound familiar
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not necessarily content but the structure if you actually why
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right this is one of the reasons in relationships we have dropped because a
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man to give you all the reasons why
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something into is what is the way this
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a woman to tell you what it means and that's why you don't get each other
37:10
a lot of the times because
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everything you do gentleman means something
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to her to us it's inconsequential the hardest elements that happen
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that led to the result not everything least you're not true
37:27
everything we do you will have to me not just a random event
37:33
welcome to the cause of most
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trouble in a relationship but wait there's more
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here's the worst well I'm gonna give you got this wrong way she talked a little
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bit this and we'll talk about me approach
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that be okay because someday
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if you guys actually use this stuff might actually get a relationship and my
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no the surgeon is a cold rain rules but then John Medina
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and you have a book
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if you don't get it in that book
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I think you talked about this but if not there's a a video floating around on
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Google you talk about this when we get stressed out
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nigga tennis the contentious
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they get progressively more picky in detail oriented
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in LP terminology in call them down shutters
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be getting more you if they're having a bad day you leave the toilet seat up
38:37
okay it's not gonna stop at the toilet see
38:41
gay it's going to be the toilet seat was up he nearly fell in it was the middle
38:46
he also left the 2k that the cap off the toothpaste
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when when you grow up on
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from here her purse like with practice anyway
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on by known then what I know now
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but here's my point when guys get that
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we start to defend ourselves
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which only makes it worse thank I'll tell you all about the dynamics at this
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from the low from the male perspective guys it's not
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rational it's not logical or
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I left the toilet she does Emily night I was tired I'm sorry let it go
39:31
she needs to tell you how she feels because she doesn't she can't let go
39:42
is to let her vent the magic mantra
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honey I'm sorry I was wrong. will get you hot
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everything regardless of how egregious as long as you're sincere with it
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theories important okay
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is a couple should attack is bigger than you this is one the reasons why a lot
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times when we're out in DT environment
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we get complete cold shoulder from women don't know why
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guys don't understand something your woman is brilliant
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anyone you approach really is bright running by that
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what I mean is her sister motion intelligence her ability
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to analyzed and qualifier
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tiny by language C cues the voice inflections
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is off the charts for the average woman compared to guys most guys were done
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bricks K and a good job but it's little sometimes it's bad
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for a guy to figure out if a woman's attracted to him
40:53
she would almost literally have to go
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up and then he still wonder
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why I'm bringing this up guys in the field have noticed that sometimes in the
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approach a woman in a club or hire a higher
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populated social interaction there's a little bit screen that comes up
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so cold shoulder discovery copper so he getting
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make you know 10 feet over and pick the temperatures start to decrease in
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Ross comes out right little life goes on inside and she talks
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you ever wonder why how about you
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why you see the socialization that women receive a man received
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are dramatically different
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you woman the average woman's brain
41:48
she is trained to hone in on subtle body language cues
41:52
boys ships that let her know
41:56
when the conversations all for
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because she's moving through the world silly everybody around
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doing it the way she does when she gives you the subtle cues
42:09
that the conversation isn't going anywhere it's over
42:15
and when you don't get it she has to keep escalating
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im because you still aren't getting it
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until finally she literally has to blow smoke in your face and turn back to you
42:28
before you get the head now women don't want to have to do that
42:33
but their socialization such
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that needed see women doing what you approach here's the thing I want to get
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they're not doing at meanness they're doing enough fear
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why if you look at me and be my Narsha one fear
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you see women have different anxieties about interacting with men
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than men do about women see guys you're free which you up when you walk up to
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after you must up your courage said all your mattress pump yourself up gotcha
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best Don you're afraid she's gonna rejected
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have right we'll get into that
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but when it a little bit different
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you see women as a rule it ought to be nice there talk to be
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considered their talk to go the extra mile
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they're also talk when to figure things out but they're not talk
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how to get themselves our situations aren't going well
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there program partisan to the don't want you to approach
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their problem is they don't know how to extricate from
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themselves front if it goes wrong
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machine think they're afraid of getting into an interaction that they can't get
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out these true nature
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that's why we use time concerns you use time constraints
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I don't I N gauge on a sign up
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right that would be left hand if you live in
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up get haley said know the same notify me says time constraints
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which in said I have a lot of time right now but i just want to talk to me too
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cuz you could really interesting I have to go
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one right if you have been a victim in one of those
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those lines out there K it's a very good tactic it takes the stress of
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doesn't make it gives the person impression you'll be leaving soon
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so they relax right and it works
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can has not been around for about 30 years ago
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but about the pick up community what you believe
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this is not about doing this is not about tricks by the way
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everything I'm gonna teach me teach you in sharing with you
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is %uh attics and honesty and openness but they are strategically
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ballot they work I don't invest my time and energy
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in low percentage techniques
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and everything is up being authentic
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but we need understand the dynamics of what's going on with the other side
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because until you understand how they see the world how they moved to the
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you won't be able to change what you're doing
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you won't be able to understand it and you won't be able to adapt
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and if you can adapt you die
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sup understand this women are have that bitch she'll
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not because they want to be not because they get off on making you feel this big
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because they're afraid their defense mechanisms are such
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that they need to protect themselves
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from getting into a deep interaction that they can remove themselves from
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once that's taken care of
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they're much more open to becoming approachable
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see ladies your job want better man the man you want in your life
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the one just scaring away
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the menu one you lie want to respect your boundaries
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who would bend over backwards to give you every romantic adventure
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every speaking every moment being swept off your feet up surrendering to that
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always dreamed up who'll never approach
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you know why because most women are socializing the giving of body language
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people who are extraordinarily Aaron self-confident
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who are not put off by
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boundaries these are people who have no regard for boundaries as a rule
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this is why the average nice guy have to save himself up to approach it
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because it's not natural where ass if
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you were willing to be more approachable to signal
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that you wanted to be approached you'd get approached by more the kinda guy
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want see other systems read
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everything you you're not broke a everything you're doing
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has a positive intention behind it
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but the other results the way it's being interpreted
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by the other side who have their own socialization own checklist
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are causing this disconnect the ladies
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your job is to learn to become approachable
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how do you learn to become more approachable any understand body
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but the most important one is to develop
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very socially and progress socially acceptable and progressive Waste
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to systematically remove your cell from any interaction
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that's not going in the direction you want to go
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right nurses some good books I recommend later that
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are good place to start referencing
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K guys you want to become you understand that when she approaches you
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if you learn what to look for and you learn how to talk to her in a way that
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when she talked to you she sees the best parts of her
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reflected in you she'll become dramatically attracted to you
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I i'm not talking about being an authentic I'm about showing the woman
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you that are most like her
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because number too much sameness boring
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too much difference dangerous but that right mix
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Alexa now we have the stuff every room any conventional romance novel ever
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right spent a lot of time studying romance novel
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there's a lot you can learn John them
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okay cell questions on this
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its me Jesse know there will be a test later
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alright they work best yessir min uses
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you did this the order her that's reflected new
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no way sir min okay so how they relate to sorta like to dance to the polarities
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the male and female because you know the the woman is bringing answered
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an energy the table in the man as well so you're flipping back
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that something that's in her already seems to me that you know there's a
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something maybe one struggles to pursue a memo to dinner what I just said was
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you have enough similarities sector say
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enough difference is that you're saying right and that's that data polarity that
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you're talking about
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when it all into larry is justice display right
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you know an ass that's why the intimacy and passion comes from
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the intimacy comes from the same this
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from the openness sharing the excitement comes from the differences
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yes would you like to know why
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my you think that is ride
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so you want to know how to take those guys don't you wanna
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hubert so she attracting guys you don't want what you want more tension
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red any random guy well so we're not gonna say she's easy just often
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but she just get a lot of male attention
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intact nothing wrong with that long handle
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right there's a lot of people arm and there's lightning and we can go way of
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you know learning to understand the different types of women at the whole
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it's a whole different kettle of fish we're gonna stop us
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some yes it's interesting that you bring this up
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another again another segue I was about to give you a break to you each of a
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drink coffee and a hottie
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but now all I have to do this I and yet and yet more Neurosci
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again yes K K this is because the the neuroscience an explanation make it
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very very complicated it's actually very simple
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once we know what we're dealing with alright this is gonna be a lil
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actually no it won't accomplish
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we're gonna have to find out my stand up
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Shayla they got it wrong the first ride
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all right here to watch whatever media get your space
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what I want to do as I wanted remember a time in your life
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when you realized and fell
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absolutely attracted and
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and and you knew it because a the way people around you
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were responding to you and you know it and know what I want to do succeed you
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when I want to use backtrack to a couple minutes before you realized it
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when you're still in that feeling but the realization here
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close your eyes now
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notice where your body that feeling less
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as she noticed their lives
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just point to it look at it with you in her eyes
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notices a color associated with that
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and now let's just pretend for a moment that we can reach into that spot
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Rev all that energy take it out on hold in your hands
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reaching gravity you don't believe me to do it
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grab with both your hands noticed its
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moving in a certain direction pay attention to the directions moving first
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now double the spin double the speed at which is moving
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double the amplitude just key physically doubling that energy
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until its takes on a life of its own talk becomes impossible to stop
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when you know you've got it I can tell who's gonna get in a
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slam it back in wash
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notice a change this how wonderful that feels
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open your eyes and look around the room is a helluva good lookin
53:39
right now what we just do their
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go back to that feeling of being totally attracted attracted
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attracted when you knew it you felt it was
53:51
undisputable want you to stand
53:54
the way you were standing what you agree the way you were breathing
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and walk-in notice was first to happen to your feelings
54:08
how you physically feel as you soon posture
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up being absolutely attractive now while holding that same breathing rate that
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seen everything without changing anything
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try to ugly knows she can't really do it without changing understand
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now go back to feel attractive stand even there
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that's how she does when you move through the world
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holding a certain physiology having a nervous system in a certain
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the emotional states that you live in
54:54
really out everyone around you and they perceive you
54:58
exactly the same way the problem is that most sinister practicing she
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physiology which leads to she emotional states
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which leads to st. less than attractive most
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the time it's really that simple
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it's not about what you believe 2.1
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you with your body prove me wrong
55:22
her body close your eyes to launch a look at me when you do this
55:25
I want you to remember a time when you felt
55:28
pass an attractive K
55:32
as George Carlin say those those days a week suffer from severe appearance
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min remember that time
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and you know it you could tell by the way they were funny you weren't to
55:45
you were being seen in the best possible light and know what I want you to do
55:50
while holding nap physiology I could see you doing
55:54
not a couple fucking factor
55:57
you I tell you something to close to do try to feel attractive without changing
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use all the will power you have
56:10
but keep that crappy physiology
56:17
while holding onto the crappy I'm unattractive stay mentally
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shift your body back the oh my god I'm so hostage
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and notice what happens
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guys just went from five to attend we fuckin quick
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is it really that easy
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simple right the only thing you have to remember guys and gals
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feeling that we have in the body emotionally Kandivli
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has a corresponding physiology of course I'm posture
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rate and breathing everything every feeling
57:13
every state has a feeling and body posture
57:17
everybody posture has a feeling in our best classes on Wheaties persuasion and
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influence things like that
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we spent a lot of time understanding this connection is a technique we call a
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and a while like he was actually designed
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are for women to attract guys
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I had a tweak a lot of it so that we could be guys could actually have a
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the ladies cell wiped when I tell you things a lot of it has been field tested
57:45
to get the kinda guys name there's a technique
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called the rock star technique where
57:52
the coalition are in our conversation frustration it was course is a master
57:56
story goes like this: it was a woman
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who on earth and attractiveness it was probably run a 67
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not super hot right and yet
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whenever she now whenever she went to a club
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she own the room every guy in the place wanted to be with her
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and the girls are like all our
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the 1910 you're beside himself how is it happen
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she like putting aside what's going on not
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she left the guys who Marino pay now
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and then one day are a smart card holder side and say
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message must what she secretly
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have all these guys hang out and wonder
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you know be in your entourage since the to watch or simple
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for you out every night I imagine a rockstar and I stand like a rockstar
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I imagine myself as a rock star and I am
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and when I walk in the room I moved like I'm looks like everybody's there's
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recently there is and see her really
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yeah now the neuroscience kinda
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and here is your son Connor on K
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you haven't you should study them because it is
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it is one of the the most important medical discoveries of our coverage
59:23
okay mirror neurons they are in fact the physiological basis for impact that
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K on most on the most basic level
59:33
when he discovered this was there was a some researchers in Italy
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and they were doing some some studies on movement and
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and how how the brain interprets information and one allowed assistance
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was peeling a banana
59:45
and then had to have these rhesus monkeys I think they were are hooked up
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UK geez media weird brain instrument
59:55
technical term an the month was a hook up the sky hang out
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you watching the lab assistant you're gonna
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and one in the lab you know i text happen to be looking at the instruments
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and no to something about the readings the area to the brain
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in the monkey that were firing or the same
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areas that would be active if he were actually peeling the banana
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what happens is when you observe somebody doing something
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your nervous system buyers of
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all the same neurological connections
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and if you are actually doing and
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that's one cited by many facets equation me to give you another one really really
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I will do my best to keep it simple
60:48
but if you understand that the
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then we understand how we can begin to create state in other people having the
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by holding certain physiology week impact ically
60:59
communicate information outside a conscious awareness
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again over-funded and really more set up an experiment
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was again once again the other female dynamic with the mail over here with the
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and they took for this
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example I don't know the actual number used but to keep it simple today at five
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of people appear now in in various it ranges
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attraction from you know really low
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european stocks in the Phils dollar-some the world and a
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very very attractive and five random
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residents dossier tricking but I would ever
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were doing playa they paired these up brandon League into this job
61:54
who was then told to engage in a phone conversation with
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who he thought was dispersed wasn't
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completely blind these to engage in a conversation
62:08
at the end of the conversation are many men
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was asked to evaluate the female based on the interaction
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consistently whenever the man thought he was talking to an attractive
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well goes by with the primary
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preparedness was the picture
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he consistently you
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you consistently rated her as being
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more talented more socially adept
62:40
more competent more countries
62:45
okay the woman asked
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how she felt the interaction went
62:52
reported that she felt like the guy in uniform really got her
62:57
like he was present Peter make conversation very well
63:05
when the lady was on 10 severe
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deficit paired with the same resin
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are many men here consistently rated her lower in social deafness
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everything and by the way this work the other way to
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I believe sold I'm being being unilateral here
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but that's not the bill equal part you might think it would be
63:35
event took the audience up these interactions
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and the ferociously headed
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to the only thing left where the
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audio snippets her responses
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to him nothing up the mail remained
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they don't play those audios
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to an independent panel of analysts in judges
64:05
who were then asked to rate
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the female on the same criteria as this gentleman
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based solely on the quality of her verbal
64:32
something in the way
64:34
gentlemen on the other end of the phone saw
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this llama was transmitted
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verbally and non verbally to this woman's nervous system in such a way
64:50
she literally took on the behaviors
64:59
that result everyone around her
65:02
this is happening to you
65:06
all the time outside if you're conscious old
65:10
and you were doing it other people K
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now questions tell you that
65:20
while in the world according to DIN
65:23
at this time call the acceptance rejection projection connection
65:27
which is a real long run away saying your checklist
65:31
you see human beings
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unlike most guys creatures have a capacity for reflective saw
65:38
we have the ability to have thoughts about our thoughts te feelings about our
65:41
and to assign arbitrary value to those feelings and those identities that we
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yeah just not my day for
65:51
good sound haha stress work
65:59
many times the way people see us
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is a reflection house years because that's what we do we approach
66:08
especially guys game
66:11
ladies might not realize is that whenever guys getting ready to approach
66:15
he's going to basically want two things unless
66:20
but this is usually default a
66:23
he sees all he wants to talk to first he goes oh she's not like to meet her
66:27
she can reject me you know wrote
66:35
this is a fun he see her
66:39
she's amazing have to be imagines
66:43
walking a they walk I the chemistry is there
66:47
everything clicks and they're together is passionate wonderful for three or
66:51
four months instantly
66:53
through lace Chavez trial she leaves heartbroken brought that he never
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you laugh we do this shit to ourselves
67:06
but if we're running those highly charged emotional movies in our head
67:11
we think we're projecting what do you think
67:18
we're training the people working in Iraq
67:21
with to do this is why
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your lease always be because she's
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himself in a way rate identity
67:38
well we gotta love the sorghum
67:43
acted are the problem is 8-9 ish is going on and when we do that
67:47
right see most mostly have no problem
67:51
attracting guys you know
67:55
me I don't care if you're super model
67:58
orville still you probably won't have any trouble
68:02
tracking people just the one you want true nature
68:10
as a singer Celine Dion when our
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we know we wanna said now but there's another layer
68:17
where we didn't know was force based on
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history down 30 figures life all this stuff but we're moving to the world male
68:28
or female makes no difference
68:29
projecting onto everyone around us was
68:33
rate an appropriate price based on a
68:36
world our actions and we meet someone
68:40
even partially matches at now we hold long
68:43
we hold on tight walk
68:48
would be something better you to the next thing comes along might be worse
68:53
I how many how many please tell you did you guys got potential
68:58
mine I can't tell you how
69:05
hi this is news to you for the whole should
69:09
because women don't see you as you see yourself they see how you could be based
69:13
on their map in your world
69:14
guys who this is the same thing
69:18
see most guys wanna give women sexual fantasies
69:21
they want them to have until the ones they really want right
69:26
it's all about understanding the other person's
69:30
when you see the world and being willing to do one of two things:
69:35
only set people who match: or
69:39
be willing to change your map to a comedy
69:43
there's now as all women are far more hard-wired to doing this in
69:49
okay because their socialization teaches do it
69:53
they don't realize the desolate doing a dissident putting it nicely to help
69:59
and then of course to get married kid
70:02
career she saw him and his career woman now she's beautiful wife and homemaker
70:11
the end the day she's exhausted Jim
70:14
for she married guy
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arguably good provider
70:22
stable exciting as host in
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up who might have been a very exciting guy we first met
70:30
only she said i do he's done them
70:34
why because socially program brought takeover
70:38
you become different people because the annual Tiki
70:46
real simple if you marry your life be the guy she fell
70:54
not because she's married do all things
70:59
thank God that you did to get a fall in love with you in the first place
71:02
you don't like the girl will come now because she had a lap
71:08
she just put everybody else
71:15
eventually wind up in a relationship at the beginning
71:23
never stop being never be that guy
71:36
we going deep into the sign to give you a little haitian
71:39
yet unpublished yep alright
71:42
let's take it take a ten-minute break
71:46
go potty have lots of chocolate Gin Blossoms caffeine combat units in action